Aperitif Parties?
In the last year or so, I’ve started to experiment with
occasional stand-alone aperitif parties. For these, I’ve invited guests for
just a couple of hours in the early evening, serving aperitif food and drinks
without the offer of dinner to follow. When the party’s over, the guests go
home, and my partner & I head off out to a restaurant. My friends and
family appreciate a good aperitif, no matter when it’s served, and they’ve never
yet declined an invitation on the grounds that the party’s too short!
I admit, I did worry the first time I did it that friends
would be affronted they were not invited for a whole evening. However, I found
references in old etiquette books to pre-dinner drinks parties, sherry parties
and cocktail parties. If it was good in the 1930s, I thought, it’ll work now.
Taking a tip from those books, I sent out invitations that specified “You are
cordially invited to join us for Cocktails & Canapés, from 6:30 to 8:30.” To
ensure that the party would end after the two hours specified, I quietly took
the drinks tray away at 8:15. My guests did need a little encouragement to
leave on time, but nobody was upset. The word I got back afterwards was that it
had been a refreshing change to enjoy a short party before going back to their
own homes, or heading into town for dinner.
Here are some ideas you might want to try:
Sherry & Tapas party
Serve a choice 2 or 3 different sherries with a variety of
cured meats, olives, Manchego cheese and tortilla. You could try slicing up a length of
chorizo and warming it in a pan with a little sherry. I guarantee that you will have
your guests fighting to mop up the juice with bread! You can set the scene
visually by having a vase or two of red, orange and/or yellow flowers in the
room, if you like: sunflowers or gladioli make quite an impact.
Champagne party
Who doesn’t like Champagne? Allow at least half a bottle per
person. People will always drink more at one of these parties than they would
immediately before dinner. Prepare a variety of traditional canapés:
thin slices of baguette that have been left to go a little stale, then spread with
flavoured butter and topped. Try sliced ham on honey & mustard butter,
mozzarella cheese and chopped tomatoes on pesto butter, rare roast beef with
watercress on horseradish butter…
This would be a great party for that 'down' weekend after Christmas or early in the New Year.
Gin Party
Buy three very different gins. How about a traditional one,
a floral one and a flavoured one? Prepare a selection of garnishes and chill a
variety of tonic waters. Put them all out on a table in the centre of the room
with some trendy-looking glasses, and leave your guests to mix and match as
they see fit. Keep your food simple. When I’ve hosted a gin party, I’ve served dim sum from my local Chinese supermarket.
They can be steamed fairly quickly from frozen and require virtually no work on
your part.
Cocktail Party
Start by deciding how much booze you can afford to buy, and
admitting you’re going to have part-bottles of odd liqueurs left over. That’ll
help you choose which cocktails to serve. Try to find some overlap in the
ingredients for your chosen cocktails. So, for instance, you might offer White
Lady, Margarita, Gin & Dubonnet and Dream cocktails. You’ll be using
gin in two of the cocktails, Dubonnet in two, and triple sec in three of them.
Another way is to start with what you have in your cupboard that needs using up
and research which cocktails use those ingredients. Write a list of the
cocktails you’re offering (I’d suggest three or four) and do not make any
others, thus ensuring you use up what you need to, with minimal waste.
Like the gin party, make sure the food you serve requires as
little work as possible. You’re going to be busy mixing drinks, so this is not
the time to show off your fried arancini
or mini-soufflés.
Next time: the magic of sherry
Ooh I rather like this idea. Love the idea of short and sharp parties - much better than feeling you have to stay for the whole night. Can appreciate that some people may like to make the best use of arranging a babysitter but as you say, they can always head to a restaurant after yours x
ReplyDeleteThank you for the comment. I'm glad you like my ideas. I know from your own blog how important time is to you. Could you fit in a gin party between the baking, your children, the housework and the synchro team??? Don't forget the hosts can go out for the night after a short party, too.
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